Epiphanies evidently arrive in taxi-cabs.
Last week, bustling toward LAX, I remembered what I'd filed away and forgotten:
You are your own CEO.
So, definitely ask. Inquire. Consider recommendations. Listen to analogies. Contemplate curious tidbits. And ponder perceived brilliance.
But ultimately, it's up to you.
As the inhabitants of the Magical Forest so eloquently put it: stop drowning your decisions in syrup -- if you remember what you love (a dab of butter and a hint of raspberry jam), you'll find what you're looking for.